Yeah, I understand, and most of the time I'm with you on that. But it's still kind of...emasculating when you've been doing something for a while (playing electric for...3.5 years?) and you still can't really play even relatively simple fast lines.
And I know that in the wonderful world of the internet, any admission of any limitation whatsoever immediately gets you put in the wow-he-must-suck category in the minds of many. It's like the normal dick-measuring of life, but without the context or nuance of reality. I know I don't suck, but people will say "oh, this solo is super easy," and it's still tough-to-impossible for me. After a certain amount of time, you have to admit to yourself what you are and what you may never be.