Thanks guys :thankyou ...yeah sleepless nights...methinks I'll just go sleep in another room for workday nights so I won't be dead tired at work...for now, the newcomer and my wife stay in the hospital, until Tuesday or so probably, and my other son goes to my mother-in-law for a week, so I'm alone for a few days here now...some good time to play guitar, play rockband drums and drink with my buddies :dude :rar :R and then clean up the house properly for the family to come home.
I took 3 weeks of leave from work to start with, so I can take care of the baby and his brother while the wife recuperates from the operation...we've planned it so that the older son and my wife go to bed around eight at night and I'll stay up till midnight with the baby, take him to sleep with his mom at around midnight and go sleep in another room till six thirty and leave for work...that way we both get to sleep pretty well and I can take care of the baby for at least 4-6 hours every day.