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warren0728 said:
i'm a susan tedeschi fan....saw her live at carnegie hall with etta james! (and of course her husband derek trucks is amazing) and K T Tunstall is cool too...i like her looping stuff

ww

I saw Susan Tedeschi together with Bonnie Raitt, Buddy Guy, and BB, all in the same day and on the same stage at the same time.

Susan comes close to holding her own with Bonnie on the slide, but Bonnie walks away from her when it's time to sing. Something about those vocal chords that were pickled in whiskey for so many years--Bonnie Rules!!

Buddy Guy played that polka dot guitar so loud it hurt my ears.

BB was, well, BB--it happened to be his 70th birthday. He still has it!

Dugly :cool:
 
oldguy said:
And if I may reiterate, there are MANY ladies (yes, ladies, a proper term for the times, and not outdated, nor a southern thing), who can kick a$s on guitar.:AOK:
Mayhaps then it's an old guy thang? :D
 
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Spudman said:
Never said it was my spandex;) Besides, even if it was mine a lot of women have gotten into my spandex.:eek:

The ladies that I know that play guitar kick butt. I'm sure if there were any on the fret they would speak right up, introduce themselves and join in because they would not be intimidated by a bunch of old guitar playing geezers.:D

what about us young guitar playing geeezers?!?!?!:reallymad:
.....
:D

yeah, but I agree we need some females here,:drool:
 
I think this thread may serve to scare them away, more that it would to attract women in providing their perspective in the guitar/music world.

It might require adding a feature or two that would attract women to want to become part of the forum. However, that could be the wrong approach since the guitar, equipment, tech info and music should be the reason for the attraction (we know us guys aren't going to be the attraction).

Over at the "W" we had a couple of woman that made solid and entertaining contributions. Some passed through and a few stayed.

I'm not sure of the answer, but some of these posts in this thread appear to be written by guys that just got out after serving 10 to 20 (not a good attraction):rotflmao:

So GG on a serious note, is there anything that you would like to see on the forum or what do you think would attract more female guitarists?

Geez, I felt out of place just writing this.
 
just strum said:
I think this thread may serve to scare them away, more that it would to attract women in providing their perspective in the guitar/music world.

+1

Writing "we want GIRLS!!! drooooool" might NOT be the way to attract women.
 
While I cannot speak for "all" female guitar players as a group, I can say that I think the main reason there are few female fretters here or on any guitar forum is that overall there are fewer female guitar players. In my own circle of female friends, I am the only one who plays. While my female friends may show an interest in my guitar because it "pretty" or "sounds nice", none have expressed an interest in learning how play.

I am guessing this is for various reasons....a lot of women like long finger nails....can't have long nails and play guitar....at least in my expereince....others are just too busy with other obligations in life (family, work)......and I suspect that others would feel too guilty to spend time persuing a hobby that takes time away from being the mom, wife, girlfriend, career woman......cause after all, if you expect to improve your playing, you need to spend time on it. Women, in general, rarely seem to do something just because they "like it" or as a "hobby".....women tend to put everyone else before themselves. Again, not saying that these "are" the reasons.....but just some of my own personal observations.

So, I guess what this says about me is that I have short finger nails, need to clean the house, should be doing the laundry, and should spend more time with my family......but I'm too busy playing my guitar.....:DR and I don't feel one ounce of guilt :Dude:

GG
 
Guitar Gal said:
So, I guess what this says about me is that I have short finger nails, need to clean the house, should be doing the laundry, and should spend more time with my family......but I'm too busy playing my guitar.....:DR and I don't feel one ounce of guilt :Dude:

GG

You are one of us now. Hire a house keeper and keep on playing.:D
 
Heh, heh, good observations GG. I know with my lovely child bride I realized she was serious about learning guitar when she broke down and cut her fingernails. That was a very difficult step for her. She fretted over it (snicker) for a couple of months before her desire to play finally won out.
 
luvmyshiner said:
Heh, heh, good observations GG. I know with my lovely child bride I realized she was serious about learning guitar when she broke down and cut her fingernails. That was a very difficult step for her. She fretted over it (snicker) for a couple of months before her desire to play finally won out.

It might also be the reason you've been wearing the same underwear for over a year now. Probably nothing left but a piece of elastic around your waste:whatever:

Hey, CB having any thoughts of saying hello to the folks here? It would be good to hear from her and give her a little break from lessons.

How about BG, what has she been doing these days. I guess school has her pretty busy.
 
Different reason Strum. I'm still wearing the same underwear cause I'm to damn cheap to buy some new ones.:rotflmao:

CB's been lurking a little, but she hasn't signed up yet. Give her time, remember how long it took her to finally sign on to the Washburn forum?

BG (that's my daughter y'all, she posts as "Babygirl" over on the Washburn forum) has been to busy this semester to even return her poor old man's phone calls. The only time I've been able to talk to her in the last three weeks was last week when her flight to Louisville for some Music Therapy Convention was canceled. She called in a panic, I found her a cheaper flight on travelocity and emailed her the link, she swore she would call me right back and I haven't hear from her since. Kids. Watcha gonna do?

:deadhorse:
 
Its because the guy:girl ratio on the intrawebz is like 100:1 :rotflmao:

w00t!!!! Its my 420 post!!!!!!
 
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Guitar Gal said:
While I cannot speak for "all" female guitar players as a group, I can say that I think the main reason there are few female fretters here or on any guitar forum is that overall there are fewer female guitar players. In my own circle of female friends, I am the only one who plays. While my female friends may show an interest in my guitar because it "pretty" or "sounds nice", none have expressed an interest in learning how play.

I am guessing this is for various reasons....a lot of women like long finger nails....can't have long nails and play guitar....at least in my expereince....others are just too busy with other obligations in life (family, work)......and I suspect that others would feel too guilty to spend time persuing a hobby that takes time away from being the mom, wife, girlfriend, career woman......cause after all, if you expect to improve your playing, you need to spend time on it. Women, in general, rarely seem to do something just because they "like it" or as a "hobby".....women tend to put everyone else before themselves. Again, not saying that these "are" the reasons.....but just some of my own personal observations.

So, I guess what this says about me is that I have short finger nails, need to clean the house, should be doing the laundry, and should spend more time with my family......but I'm too busy playing my guitar.....:DR and I don't feel one ounce of guilt :Dude:

GG

so you're a female fretter?:drool:

wow, I never thought I'd live to see the day, but now that I have, I guess I don't know what to say, ummm... me pieman, you guitar gal, and these are pancakes:pancake
 
pie_man_25 said:
so you're a female fretter?:drool:

wow, I never thought I'd live to see the day, but now that I have, I guess I don't know what to say, ummm... me pieman, you guitar gal, and these are pancakes:pancake
Remarkably simple. See guys, that's how we chivalristically welcome our new lady fretters. Like Thoreau, simple and to the point.:AOK:
 
just strum said:
didn't you read the headlines today - there is a world wide water shortage - stop your damn drooling.

****, oh well, I guess that means I can't look on the fender website anymore now can I?
 
Oh great, the Canucks have been boozing it up again. Don't worry ladies they are harmless...just bad spellers.:D
 
I really don't know why it matters if women or men are here?
I am here to listen and learn for Guitar players.. no matter how they are built..

:beer: :pancake :beer: :pancake
 
Justaguyin_nc said:
I really don't know why it matters if women or men are here?
I am here to listen and learn for Guitar players.. no matter how they are built..

:beer: :pancake :beer: :pancake

Very good point. I've known GG for a while now and I would say her playing is more advanced than mine and she has provided me with some good information. Doesn't matter if they are male or female, just as long as they are fretters or aspiring fretters.
 
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